Funeral Directors Checklist: Everything You Need (2025)
Printable checklist for meeting with funeral directors. Know exactly what to bring, what to ask, and what decisions to make.
Quick Reference Checklist
✓ Bring
- □ Death certificate
- □ Birth certificate
- □ Photo ID
- □ Will (if available)
- □ Clothing
✓ Ask
- □ Total cost breakdown
- □ What's included
- □ Payment options
- □ Timeline
- □ Cancellation policy
✓ Decide
- □ Burial vs cremation
- □ Service type
- □ Casket choice
- □ Venue
- □ Date and time
This comprehensive checklist continues with detailed sections on documents, questions, comparisons, and decision frameworks...
Frequently Asked Questions
What documents do I need to bring to a funeral director?
Essential documents: medical certificate of death, deceased's birth certificate, marriage/civil union certificate, photo ID, passport/citizenship papers. Optional but helpful: will, pre-paid funeral plan, clothing for deceased, service ideas.
How many funeral directors should I get quotes from?
Get itemized quotes from at least 2-3 funeral homes to compare prices. Costs can vary 20-30% for identical services. Ask for written quotes broken down by item, not just package totals.
What questions should I ask a funeral director?
Key questions: What's included in quoted price? What are additional/optional costs? Do you have package deals or itemized pricing? What's your cancellation policy? Are you licensed/member of FDANZ? Can I supply my own casket? What payment options available?
Can I negotiate funeral costs with funeral directors?
Yes, some costs are negotiable. Ask about: package discounts, cash payment discounts, off-peak time discounts, removing unnecessary package items, providing your own products (casket, flowers), or payment plans to reduce upfront costs.
What if I can't afford the funeral director's quote?
Options: Get quotes from 2-3 more funeral homes, choose direct cremation ($3,000-$4,000), ask about payment plans, apply for WINZ funeral grant (up to $2,000 for beneficiaries), check if ACC covers costs (accident deaths), or consider DIY funeral elements.
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